Hey, Melinda, it's great to see you
! My gosh your days sound busy
! You've exhausted me just thinking about all that
!
As for moving west... I desperately needed to get away from my ex husband and ex boyfriend (a term that sounds really stupid for middle aged people but...), the economy back there was raunchy and I was working a full time plus 3 part time jobs and still was barely making it. I just needed to get away from it all and the only person I knew out of the state lived here. I had very little to move and was willing to take whatever work I could get so... my Shadow and I packed up out meager belongings, rented a Ryder and hit the road. I came thinking that if I didn't like it, I could go back to PA. And I actually thought I hated it out here at first, but after a visit back east in the heat & humidity, not to mention all the traffic, the people, etc - I knew my heart now belonged out here. So voila - these 20+ years later I can't imagine ever living anywhere else
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I was honestly very chicken to move, having never been out of PA but a time or two, and not liking either trip... There's no way I could've picked up cold turkey and just selected a spot. If not for my friend out here, I would never have moved... The sad part is that she and I parted ways not long after I moved out here and are not any longer friends or even acquaintances...
As for advice, I would suggest visiting places you think you might want to go
. Not everyone can luck into it like I did
... It truly IS a whole different world out here. But I tell you, if you like the outdoors and like hiking, fishing, etc, there's nothing like the wide open West to be able to get out and enjoy without being surrounded by a plethora of others
. On the other hand, you'll have to accept (if you move to high desert like I did) that the color is not here (no vivid greens or fall colors) and you WILL have to water to have any landscaping and use lotion like crazy if you don't want lizard skin. But for me, that's a very small price to pay for the beauty and quality of life - not to mention the lack of humidity and all the bugs, sweating, and bitter cold that stuff brings!
Okay, enough blathering for now
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