Okay, so I am a health-conscious workout-aholic...and I married a man who...well...isn't.
I've gained about 20 pounds since we've been together and I just can't seem to get rid of it. And I think I know where the problem is. He likes his high-fat, low-nutritional-value food, and wants absolutely nothing to do with the healthier foods I try to make for myself. So, it's a constant battle to make meals that we will both want to eat (well, I "want" to eat pizza, but I shouldn't...and if he didn't always want pizza in the house, it would be easier for me to not be tempted and have "just one slice"). He wants hamburgers at least once a week, and while I've finally convinced him to at least get lean ground beef or ground sirloin, it's still more meat than I was eating before we met. I've tried making "vegetable burgers", using lean ground meat, but he just doesn't really like them. He also likes french fries, pork, lots of cheese, and a lot of other things that someone who's trying to eat clean shouldn't have. And he doesn't like peas, tomatoes, zucchini, beans, and a bunch of other vegetables I like. I used to eat pretty much just vegetables and some occasional chicken for my meals, but he doesn't think it's a meal with some kind of meat. And he drinks about 3-4 Pepsi's a day. It's just frustrating, because I'm really trying to get back to a healthy diet, but it's hard having the chips and junk lying around for an easy snack (and when you're as time-constrained as I am, sometimes it's too easy to reach for the quick and unhealthy stuff when you need a snack). It's also expensive, too, when we're having to buy twice as much food because he wants one thing and I want another.
At any rate, does anyone else have a similar situation at home? And how do you deal with it? I need help here! I know I can lose about 20 pounds if I can just get the food monster in my kitchen under control!
I've gained about 20 pounds since we've been together and I just can't seem to get rid of it. And I think I know where the problem is. He likes his high-fat, low-nutritional-value food, and wants absolutely nothing to do with the healthier foods I try to make for myself. So, it's a constant battle to make meals that we will both want to eat (well, I "want" to eat pizza, but I shouldn't...and if he didn't always want pizza in the house, it would be easier for me to not be tempted and have "just one slice"). He wants hamburgers at least once a week, and while I've finally convinced him to at least get lean ground beef or ground sirloin, it's still more meat than I was eating before we met. I've tried making "vegetable burgers", using lean ground meat, but he just doesn't really like them. He also likes french fries, pork, lots of cheese, and a lot of other things that someone who's trying to eat clean shouldn't have. And he doesn't like peas, tomatoes, zucchini, beans, and a bunch of other vegetables I like. I used to eat pretty much just vegetables and some occasional chicken for my meals, but he doesn't think it's a meal with some kind of meat. And he drinks about 3-4 Pepsi's a day. It's just frustrating, because I'm really trying to get back to a healthy diet, but it's hard having the chips and junk lying around for an easy snack (and when you're as time-constrained as I am, sometimes it's too easy to reach for the quick and unhealthy stuff when you need a snack). It's also expensive, too, when we're having to buy twice as much food because he wants one thing and I want another.
At any rate, does anyone else have a similar situation at home? And how do you deal with it? I need help here! I know I can lose about 20 pounds if I can just get the food monster in my kitchen under control!