It seems like kids these days are just bigger a**holes than ever. Too bad parents don't do a better job. I've gotten to where I pretty much hate kids for this very reason. We were never like that when we were that age.
I haven't read through the other replies but I'm betting you're going to get it

D) from all the parents on the board so let me just tell a y'all a true story.
About a month ago a tremendous amount of damage was done when every trash can in our alley, for a half-block range, was set on fire. These are huge city-owned multi-family rubber trash cans and, as usual, since I work weird hours and was up at 2am, I was the one who called 911. It wasn't long before EVERYONE on the block was out in the alley, horrified, watching the firefighters battle. In addition to all the (expensive) trash cans that had been destroyed there was the following damage: All the overhead cable and electrical wires, one homeowner's privacy fence and, worst of all, an entire garage was burnt to the ground. It took firefighters forever to get the wildly blazing garage under control while the other alley fires raged. We were all worried about the privacy fence.
We talked among ourselves and soon found out this same band of thrill-seekers (who were spotted by witnesses but never caught) set trash can fires in several other parts of our neighborhood. It was a busy, and dangerous, night for our fire department (Columbus Ohio actually has the single busiest fire house in the nation... lovely). The whole time all I could think was 'The
LAST TIME they did this it was just trash cans... now they've set a garage on fire... next, it will be abandoned houses..' Our houses are literally separated by about nine feet so imagine how fast a house fire could spread and at 2am, when everyone's asleep... my God. The potential death toll...
The story, naturally, made the local news and everyone was talking about it at work during our morning staff meeting. I gave everyone the run down and then I said "I swear. I'm starting to HATE teenagers
as a species." I got a lot of laughs with that but I was serious. The thing is, I think the problem with kids today (did YOU ever set your neighbors things on fire?!) is deep, complex, and not as easy as just blaming the parents, or tv, or video games, or music, or movies... all of the above (and more) have culminated in the degeneration of our collective American conscience and any love of peace or understanding of why a thing is right or wrong, hurtful, damaging, dangerous or cruel.
I'm a huge believer in personal responsibility and often have to fight the urge to hate kids for what I've always been certain they know is bad behavior. But then I really think about it. Watching a recent Oprah, where adolescent girls told all about how they have to perform oral sex on boys in order to keep from being ostracized (God, don't get me started!) made me realize adults, on the whole, parents or not, really have no idea how hard it is to be a kid today. And I have absolutely no answers. I'm just glad I have no children because it seems like the job of parent is a freakin' nightmare!
I apologize for totally hijacking this thread. Feel free to disregard my post.