I don't know if it is the 7 year itch or what it is but DH has been driving me crazy!
Don't get me wrong,I love my husband and he isn't doing anything to out of the way....and who knows....maybe its just me.But I am not PMSing so its not that.
He as been so argumentive lately.He will argue about anything and when I find out I am right,I feel like saying "told you so" but I don't.
Last night we were having people over.We set up a bigger table in the living room so we could all eat around the table.We were having a pot luck so I thought all of the food could go on our kitchen table and we could just serve ourselves.He thinks there isn't enough room around the other table,decides to take the leaf out of our kitchen table and then drag that table into the living room.Now we have no table to put our food on AND no room to move in the living room.None of us are big people so I said...."all you have to do is move these chairs around and we can add one more to each side"..again he doesn't listen.It is like I am invisable.Finally I see him going back into the kitchen with the table and bringing chairs back in.
I then get a headache from drinking a glass of wine(I never drink wine)I take 3 pills so I am not as social as I would like.He then picks on me for that,saying I look grumpy.I tell him I have a headache I am not to worried about what he thinks.He won't leave me alone.I try to ignore him and get in on the other conversation but he keeps talking to me.Then later he turns the music up from a comfy,talkable,level 25 to a 64! I thought my head was going to pop off.It even made it up to 74 at one point.I kept reminding him that people live next door and that I have a headache.I am also sober through all of this while he as had enough beers.I also remind him that they are drinking on my new carpet so just be careful.He is then a a$$ about that as well.
I go upstairs and leave the music and beer downstairs.And I veg in my living room with a few other people.Then he comes upstairs.He sits in the chair and ask why I am up here? I tell him the music is to loud and I am going to have a stroke if I see something fall on my new light carpet.He is making no sense.Well he says, all you had to do was tell me to turn the music down,I say, I did that,and he argues that I didn't and he also argues that the music isn't up on 64! Then he brings up something that happened 2 days ago.There are people walking in and out of the living room and I am saying"I am done talking to you" and he is still babbling...on and on....Seriously if there were a button to press like Dr.Evil does in Austin Powers,where the floor opens up and the person disappears, I would have done it.
I could go on forever....but please tell me that they are all in some form this way! Maybe its just me always wanting to be right and the party wouldn't of been that big of a deal if I were drunk and didn't have a headache.But he likes to go on and on about how good i've got it and I know I have a good husband but he is not doing to bad himself.I tell him that alot of women wouldn't put up with the stuff I put up with.
Maybe he is changing OR we just need to have good argument, which we never argue.But sometimes when things bother you about people, you need to get it all out and sometimes it takes a big blow up and then a nice make up after,
Anyway,.....he is driving me bonkers.Hmmmmm,remember those candy?:9 Anyone else put up this from time to time?
Lori
Don't get me wrong,I love my husband and he isn't doing anything to out of the way....and who knows....maybe its just me.But I am not PMSing so its not that.
He as been so argumentive lately.He will argue about anything and when I find out I am right,I feel like saying "told you so" but I don't.
Last night we were having people over.We set up a bigger table in the living room so we could all eat around the table.We were having a pot luck so I thought all of the food could go on our kitchen table and we could just serve ourselves.He thinks there isn't enough room around the other table,decides to take the leaf out of our kitchen table and then drag that table into the living room.Now we have no table to put our food on AND no room to move in the living room.None of us are big people so I said...."all you have to do is move these chairs around and we can add one more to each side"..again he doesn't listen.It is like I am invisable.Finally I see him going back into the kitchen with the table and bringing chairs back in.
I then get a headache from drinking a glass of wine(I never drink wine)I take 3 pills so I am not as social as I would like.He then picks on me for that,saying I look grumpy.I tell him I have a headache I am not to worried about what he thinks.He won't leave me alone.I try to ignore him and get in on the other conversation but he keeps talking to me.Then later he turns the music up from a comfy,talkable,level 25 to a 64! I thought my head was going to pop off.It even made it up to 74 at one point.I kept reminding him that people live next door and that I have a headache.I am also sober through all of this while he as had enough beers.I also remind him that they are drinking on my new carpet so just be careful.He is then a a$$ about that as well.
I go upstairs and leave the music and beer downstairs.And I veg in my living room with a few other people.Then he comes upstairs.He sits in the chair and ask why I am up here? I tell him the music is to loud and I am going to have a stroke if I see something fall on my new light carpet.He is making no sense.Well he says, all you had to do was tell me to turn the music down,I say, I did that,and he argues that I didn't and he also argues that the music isn't up on 64! Then he brings up something that happened 2 days ago.There are people walking in and out of the living room and I am saying"I am done talking to you" and he is still babbling...on and on....Seriously if there were a button to press like Dr.Evil does in Austin Powers,where the floor opens up and the person disappears, I would have done it.
I could go on forever....but please tell me that they are all in some form this way! Maybe its just me always wanting to be right and the party wouldn't of been that big of a deal if I were drunk and didn't have a headache.But he likes to go on and on about how good i've got it and I know I have a good husband but he is not doing to bad himself.I tell him that alot of women wouldn't put up with the stuff I put up with.
Maybe he is changing OR we just need to have good argument, which we never argue.But sometimes when things bother you about people, you need to get it all out and sometimes it takes a big blow up and then a nice make up after,
Anyway,.....he is driving me bonkers.Hmmmmm,remember those candy?:9 Anyone else put up this from time to time?
Lori
