Hi all, I am writning a follow up on my situation. The original link is http://69.0.137.118/dc/dcboard.php?..._id=263872&mesg_id=263872&listing_type=search in case you were curious.
I have been seeing him for a month now all was going great. We both knew he may be leaving for a job in TX soon. We made plans to go back and forth, we talked about future, kids, family, etc. I agree it was fast but we are faced with him leaving soon an it seemed right. Besides he was the one saying all these things and his actions seemed to be following what he was saying so I wasn't too weary. He calls me every day we have seen eachother twice a week and its always fantastic, I spent the night this week, but we did not have sex (too early for me and he didn't try anyway, but we got to talk more and he showed me houses online down in TX he was looking at. He called Wed, Thurs and I was wondering why he hadn't mentioned the weekend, well he called friday night to tell me he took the job in TX for sure and that he was on his way to go skiing (he is in on a ski house) I asked when he was leaving for TX and he said end of March. so I asked if he was going to be away every weekend and he said he has been thinking and that the timing is off, maybe if we had a few months under our belts, etc. I asked if he had made up his mind and he said he think so so i said fine go skiing and maybe we'll talk when you get back to close this up. I am a very rational girl and always keep my cool so I won't freak out or anything but what do I say? what Happened? cold feet?
Sparrow I know you told me your story of you and your husband, did this part ever happen to you? Theres a part of me that wants to just not talk to him and walk away and forget we met becasue I am not sure theres an answer he would be able to give me. Any advice as to how to deal with this? Are cold feet reversible seeing as we only have one month left, I am assuming we are now not to see eachother again while he is still here, that would be pointless. What a chicken calling me from the car to tell me he is going skiing.
Skye
I have been seeing him for a month now all was going great. We both knew he may be leaving for a job in TX soon. We made plans to go back and forth, we talked about future, kids, family, etc. I agree it was fast but we are faced with him leaving soon an it seemed right. Besides he was the one saying all these things and his actions seemed to be following what he was saying so I wasn't too weary. He calls me every day we have seen eachother twice a week and its always fantastic, I spent the night this week, but we did not have sex (too early for me and he didn't try anyway, but we got to talk more and he showed me houses online down in TX he was looking at. He called Wed, Thurs and I was wondering why he hadn't mentioned the weekend, well he called friday night to tell me he took the job in TX for sure and that he was on his way to go skiing (he is in on a ski house) I asked when he was leaving for TX and he said end of March. so I asked if he was going to be away every weekend and he said he has been thinking and that the timing is off, maybe if we had a few months under our belts, etc. I asked if he had made up his mind and he said he think so so i said fine go skiing and maybe we'll talk when you get back to close this up. I am a very rational girl and always keep my cool so I won't freak out or anything but what do I say? what Happened? cold feet?
Sparrow I know you told me your story of you and your husband, did this part ever happen to you? Theres a part of me that wants to just not talk to him and walk away and forget we met becasue I am not sure theres an answer he would be able to give me. Any advice as to how to deal with this? Are cold feet reversible seeing as we only have one month left, I am assuming we are now not to see eachother again while he is still here, that would be pointless. What a chicken calling me from the car to tell me he is going skiing.
Skye
