Our dog died yesterday

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Cathlete
...and my life is forever changed. Our yellow lab, Sandy, died yesterday of an apparant heart attack while taking a walk with my DD. She's crushed of course. The youngest 2 ages 6 and 4 are taking it really hard. I can't believe how hard her loss is effecting me. She was always the "kids'" dog in my eyes but she really was more mine. She was at my heels from the time I stepped out of bed to the time I went to sleep. She stayed with me when my husband travelled and was my protection and companion. My whole daily routine is different, she was even with me for my workouts:-( Everything reminds me of her and I know this too shall pass. But right now it hurts like hell:(
 
Very Sorry....I just finished reading Marly and Me, and it had me crying at the end. Then I had to hug my dog.
 
Oh, I am so so sorry for your loss. Our pets mean so much to us and I cannot imaging losing one of them. I will be thinking of you and your family. Take care.


Susan
 
I'm sorry for your loss. I was just thinking how much I miss my lap kitty, Molly, who we had to put to sleep a few weeks ago. Remember all the wonderful things you and your dog did together.
 
I am so sorry for your loss-I understand what you are going through and I am very sorry. Our animals our very much a part or our lives and its very difficult to lose them. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Lisa
 
Thank you all for your kind words. I'm so glad I have a place like this to talk about it. Not everyone is an animal person and they don't always understand.
Buffetgirl, I'm also very sorry for your loss. We try to talk to the kids about all the funny things Sandy did so they try to get the whole scene of yesterday out of their minds. Our youngest doesn't understand and is already wanting to go to the puppy store. I'm not going to be ready for that for a long time;(
 
Brandi she was just about 10 years old and I just saw the picture of your dog. She looked just like that with shorter hair:) She was definitely the queen of the house. The saying is usually, "if momma ain't happy then no one is happy" right. Well in our house "if Sandy aint happy ain't no one happy":)
 
{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}} to you and your family. Animals are so much a part of their family's lives. We've gone through the loss of a dog and cat with our boys and it just isn't easy. Let them hug onto their happy memories of Sandy.
 
Thank you again. I have a question for those of you who have gone through this before. My DH and I have decided to let the vet take care of her remains and not bring her ashes home. We don't have land to bury her and I'm not sure how to explain to the kids why Sandy now fits in a little urn. Do you think we are making the right decision? We are telling them that she is an angel now in heaven with my sister. And they seem to understand that a little better than the burying thing.
 
I think the decision is leave the final details to the vet is a good one, especially with 2 younger children. They should remember her alive and playing.
 
Aw I'm so sorry. We had to put our puppy to sleep last year (also a yellow lab) and it was very sad. I hope you go back to normal soon. *Hugs*
 
I wish I knew what to say to make things better-I lost my bird Calvin on April 11, 2006 and I am still devastated. I did get his ashes back but I do not have children, I would think it would be better to tell them Sandy is an angel in heaven. I do believe that by the way and I do believe we will see them again. I put together a photo album of my baby and now I can look at it and remember the good the times we had but I still have my bad days. I just recently got another bird which has helped but I also belive my Calvin picked out this bird for me. You will know when you are ready but I also believe its different for children. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Lisa
 
I'm so sorry for your loss. A pet's death is always hard, and I don't know if a quick, unexpected loss is better or worse than a lingering illness.

I think letting the vet take care of the final arrangements is a good idea. What was your beloved Sandy isn't housed in that body any more, and the good memories you have of her are more important than any physical remains.

Don't let anyone make you feel like mourning a pet is silly, or that she was 'just a dog." The object of our love may change, but love is still love, whoever it is felt for, and I'm sure you loved Sandy very much.

Spend some time looking at her photos and talking about the good times, allowing yourselves to cry, but also remembering the joy.

And when you're ready, there are some loving and loveable dogs at your local shelter who are in need of a home!
 
I am so sorry for your loss of Sandy. I have a chocolate lab named Bailey and I couldnt even imagine her gone I dont know what I would do. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Take Care
Randi (hugs)
 
I am so sorry Sandy. I am praying for you and your children. I know your pain, we have lost a few horses at different times over the years, and it is so hard. They are like family members. My 4 YO still asks when his pony Kemo is coming back, even though he knows he is in Heaven with God. It will get easier over time, just remember all your good times with your dog.
Sorry to all the others who have lost your pets. I will keep you all in my prayers also.

Maeghan AKA megadoo

New pics added in July 25 2006 and Fitness album!!!!

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OOOOH!

I'm so sorry. They get close to you, and tug at your heart so.

So sorry,

Janie

"If you can't say anything nice about someone, then don't say anything at all."
-My mother, Mary Cooper-
 
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