Here is a very, very shortened version of Grandpa's story: Grandpa is a very prideful man and everyone in the family has a job because they worked for him in his shop. My dad took over the shop, but people still look up to Grandpa to take care of them. He is a very strong, strong man, is the oldest son/child and had to stand up and be a man early because his dad was an alcoholic. He has never shown any weakness EVER, has always taken control of everything and person in his life because of his distrust in others and he needs to know that "his" are taken care of. He also has an extremely successful metal business. Everyone has moved out of country to either India or Mexico to produce and grind metals and steel because it's cheaper, but not him. His is the only business like it left in Hammond/East Chicago/Gary, probably one of the few left in the midwest. That is such a testament to his character, leadership, people skills and determination. Everyone in the community looks up to him and admires him. He was severely depressed after my sister's visit because she saw him in a hospital bed on oxygen not able to stand up. UGH, I hate pride and vanity!!! Because of his reaction I am not so sure that I should go to see him just yet, until he is stronger.
Sorry this is a post is so long, I just really feel the need to talk about him. I was ready to give up last night because he has lived hard: drinking, smoking, gambling and women. It was bound to catch up with him and he was in very poor condition before his stomach ruptured last night as it was. My husband is such a wonderful prayer (that looks funny), though! We prayed last night and I was thanking God for the memories with my grandpa (he wasn't expected to make it through the surgery) and how I was so grateful for the final memories I had of him. I prayed like someone who had lost hope, was willing to take the doctors word for it and forget just who God is. Then Dan prays: "God, you will bring him through the surgery and allow him to live another day. Show Melissa how strong you are, show her what I know of you, and be a comfort to her and her family." Well, he said more than that, but GOD LISTENED TO HIM! My grandpa, who shouldn't have made it through the surgery, didn't even have a hiccup during it and is completely stable. Dan's childlike faith blows me away.
Thank you for your hugs, prayers and vibes.
Gayle, I wasn't sure about ETK because of workout ADD, but now that I am into I LOVE IT!
Nita, I agree with Deanie and Gayle. I would do swings, just like she said. The stronger your swing is the stronger EVERYTHING is (including other forms of cardio - your heart becomes a powerhouse!), and you don't really work it much in Providence.
Deanie, I see that you are rolling your own dice!

I would be afraid that I would only roll a 2 so right now I am doing what ETK tells me... unless it tells me 2 or 3, then I'll have the boys choose a number for me, lol.
I did the workout just now, 3x3. It felt about the same as Monday, and now I am even more eager for that 30# kb to get here!!! I did the swings: 25 swings with 35# bell and 10 second break in 6 minutes, and I went 6 rounds plus 29. I did morel like 15 second breaks, probably did a 20 second break in there somewhere.

I was a little worried about losing strength waiting for the Ader, so as a cash out I tried to clean and press the 35# - yay, I did it! I did a 2 step ladder with pull ups. I also did 3 TGUs on each side with a windmill using a 25#. My heart recovered very quickly post-workout. This program is working exactly how Pavel said it should.
See you later.
Melissa