Hi Reba,
I have found a supplement that seems to help. It is called Natrol Complete Balance AM, PM formula. There is a morning tablet with B vitamins, soy, calcium and black cohosh. The Pm tablet has calcium, soy and melatonin to help you sleep. The black cohosh really helps with the hot flashes. I have been using it for quite awhile. It akes a couple of weeks to start really noticing the difference. With out it I would wet with sweat. My Dr recommended it to me. Some black cohosh formulas seem to work better than others. There is a brand called Spring Valley that works well for me. I started using the complete balance formula due to night sweats and not being able to sleep well. It has helped alot. Both items I found at Walmart.
Hope this helps.
Diane Sue