Hi, i`ve been living with my fiance for a couple of years now and we`ve just decided to split up. The problem is its his house so I`ll have to move out which means that I`ll have to stay here until I find somewhere. Just wondering if anyones been in this situation and how you coped with it. Thanks for reading.
Partner split
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hiitdogs
Cathlete
It depends on if your split is amicable or if there are hard feelings and bruised egos. What does he say about you staying until you find a new place?
Personally, I probably wouldn't stay, I'd go into a hotel room or stay with a friend until I get my own place. I just split with my husband and immediately moved out with my kids and dogs. In my situation, staying there was out of the question.
I am sorry you are going through this!
Personally, I probably wouldn't stay, I'd go into a hotel room or stay with a friend until I get my own place. I just split with my husband and immediately moved out with my kids and dogs. In my situation, staying there was out of the question.
I am sorry you are going through this!
snowflakenj02
Member
I'm sorry to hear that. Years ago when my husband and I split, we decided he would get the house and I would move out. He got the house because there wasn't any way financially that I could afford it on my own, so I had no choice. It took me a couple of months to find a place and move. Those couple of month were very difficult. From experience I can tell you this, if there is any way for you to move out ASAP, do it. Living in the same house, is not easy emotionally. You are in my prayers.
Sharon
Sharon
trixie108
Cathlete
First of all, I'm so sorry to hear the bad news. I just went through this myself a few months ago, so if you want to PM me, feel free. I know how hard it is (especially if there are wedding plans involved). My fiancee moved out the day after we decided to split (I own the house), and I think that was the best thing for both of us. It really helped me move on quicker, because I allowed myself sometime to just cry and mope and be alone. I agree that maybe a friend or relative letting you stay with them would be the best. Then maybe once you find a place, you can get your stuff.
martijean1
Cathlete
Honey, I can sympathize with you! Almost 2 years ago my boyfriend (and 2 time fiance, ha!) decided to call it quits after 8 years...It was amiable and my daughter stayed in OUR house that WE built (but was in his name) for the next 3 months while we waited for our new house to close...I can't say it was difficult (again, it was amiable), just, well, different...I think it was the best thing to do for my daughter (she has known him since she was 3 and called him DAD from 6 years old, was 11 when we split) knowing that it was ok with us that they continue their relationship...It's amazing how your life can change in 2 years!
MJ in MN
MJ in MN